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Voice + Visibility·Kylie Patchett·Apr 11, 2025· 6 minutes

I’m not crying. You’re crying.  

I'm writing to you on Christmas Eve here in Australia, having slid to the finish line of a HUGE year, polishing off the final webpage of an enormous web and membership site build for my last ever done for you client.

Last month Kylie booked a facial for today Kylie (who didn't even realise she had till she opened her calendar today!) and as I was laying enjoying 2 hours of deliciousness, my heart got to counting my blessings.

 

Happy thank you more please for my family and the beautiful year we have all had - new houses, new roles, first Christmases in new homes, big opportunities and lots and lots and lots of laughter together for another year

Happy thank you more please for joy-fuelled business moves

Happy thank you more please for overflowing abundance

Happy thank you more please for welcoming more than 1000 new people into this Mad Hatter's style community since SEEN on Nov 15

Happy thank you more please for the perfect fit women resonating with the Potent sistermind starting in Fb and joining the circle

Happy thank you more please for a biz that allows me to work until midnight last night because I was in creative flow, and then take a big chunk of time off - without having to ask for leave

Happy thank you more please for the spectacular motorbike boots I just bought to celebrate a blow-mind-and-heart-out-of-the-water final quarter.

Happy thank you more please for drawing the line on DFY clients to clear space for my next evolution of heart work

Happy thank you more please for the coach I found who was an answer to my prayer this year

(HAT TIP TO YOU Sam freaking Garcia - you have totally transformed my identity!! Forever grateful)

Happy thank you more please for my divine man who has been keeping me fed, in clean clothes and caffeinated over the past 8 week's whirlwind

Happy thank you more please for space + grace to feel into, integrate and marinate in all the love, challenge, joy, growth and magnetism that visited me this year in the liminal between 24 and 25

Happy thank you more please for the January 1st 2024 Kylie who decided "this is the year it all changes" and got down to the business of shedding skins, leaning IN to fear, trusting her inner wise woman

Happy thank you more please for the spiritual mentors and guides who have been holding me through this entire expansion process (Janet McGeever, Sara Brooke, Julia Albain - your power, your magick, your love - swoon-worthy)

Happy thank you more please for the smaller but so so so much deeper group of friends who have been by my side every step of the way this year - specially you Jodie P to be able to ramble and chat and verbally vomit to process ALL THE FEELS has been one of the most healing experiences, and it has allowed me to keep opening, opening, softening, softening in all my relationships.

 

And to you, my beautiful community. I say happy thank you more please for you.  

I don't take the ability to reach you, to connect, to be in circle with you, to guide you to your own power, magick and wildest deepest dreams and desires for granted for even one minute.

It matters to me that you are here. and I am honoured. blessed. alight with gratitude for you all.

And no matter if you have been here since the 'good ole days' of my first business, saw me blow that sucker up and run away with a tail between my legs --- only to (re)emerge early last year ...

or you are totally new to the Mad Hatter's community, I am sending you these wishes ...

 

May you feel your own magick  

May you bow to your own magnificence

May you surrender any and all old stories that stop you from being the fullest most unapologetic version of you

May you feel all the seen + unseen support around you - every day in every way

(no matter if you too are a witch or a weaver or an energy worker, or a total newbie to all that woo, it's there, holding you firm between mama earth's gentle gravity hug and the vastness of father sky and all thee stars in the universe)

May your work in the world pulse in your veins so you become a channel, a conduit just letting your message flow.

May you open your mouth and speak your truth.

May you claim all that you deeply desire and then get out there ALL IN on reweaving your reality to make it happen

May you feel so so so loved, loveable, loving.

Always.

 

ok now I am may be having a big happy thank you more please sobbing cry. 🥺

 

So many blessings, so much to be grateful for, so much to look forwards to in 2025 - including turning 50 in a month, celebrating 25 years of marriage in May and travelling OS at least 3 times in the next year

apprenticing with Radical Healers and being in the VORTEX baby (iykyk)

quantum shifting from 6 fig to 7 fig with joy as my biz strategy - yep she's shaping up to be a biggie already!

 

Here's a happy and healthy silly season if you celebrate and a relaxing ease into 2025.

 

 


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