💥 You’re Not Her… Until You Decide You Are 💥

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Here’s the truth no one tells you:

You’re not a woman who speaks her mind…
Until you decide you are.

You’re not a woman who takes up space, goes first, or shines unapologetically…
Until you decide you are.

You’re not a woman who holds magical space for her clients, leading with an open heart and unshakable trust…
Until you decide you are.

This isn’t about waiting for the world to hand you permission. No one’s giving out “thought leader badges” or golden tickets to say, “Now you’re ready to shine, love.”

It’s a decision. A full-throated, no-backup-plan, fck-the-rules decision.

“I am her. I am the one. I’ve always been the one.”

And that decision? It’s fcking electric. It’s terrifying. It’s liberating. Because the moment you decide, you start walking the edge of your power—learning to hold more truth, more expression, more you than you ever thought possible.

The capacity to lead, to disrupt, to shift paradigms doesn’t come first. The decision does. And as you walk it, as you hold it, your capacity grows.

✨ You get louder.
✨ You get bolder.
✨ You become so unapologetically yourself that your people can’t help but be drawn to you.

So here’s the question:
Are you going to wait another day for someone else to tell you you’re ready? Or are you going to claim it?

You’re not her until you decide you are.

So… are you?